He: Babey… Get all your work done before I leave
for work.
Me: Ok!! Something
important to discuss about?
He: No. It’s
just that I get frustrated if I don’t speak to you before starting my day at
work.
(That just sparked a firework of happiness
in my heart and made me grasp, “smallest things acquire the largest space in
our hearts”)
The social networking
fling has spoilt the charm of small things. Being able to easily express the
feeling of happiness or sadness or frustration through status updates have
brutally killed the lighter moments. It have only made us over exaggerate minor
happenings into breaking news flair. We have by time forgotten that smaller
means of happiness tend to linger in our mind which we need in our stressed
lives than the extreme happiness that gushes in our nerves and is flown out
with the same speed.
A passionate
kiss or a bed breaking sexual stand would give happiness but only for that
period of time. The effect of it withers after its repeated grace. What dawdle through your mind is his staring at you in the mirror image while you dress up
beautifully, during an important score against FCB that he didn't wanted to miss. Showing you off as a trophy
wife/girlfriend in a high-end party doesn't hold on to our emotion so firm but
his angst for you while he makes you cross the crowded junction by gripping
your hand tightly does.
Violence or
abuse during a fight cannot be ever forgiven but accidently meeting of eyes
after the fight and his agony of remorse makes you hold on to him. Considering you
as his angel and placing a gentle kiss on your forehead after a long tiring day
is an instant relaxant.
Your
hormones may take you on an emotional roller coaster ride but his attempt at
making you laugh with his quirky jokes during your mood swings make you sprawl with
relief.
Life may toss
bad, worse and worst instants at you and you may try to cope up with the rainy days but a comforting hand placed on your shoulder during tough times to make
sure he is there for you increase your determination.
In middle of
the movie scene his looking at you and smiling maybe to resemble you to the
character cannot stop you blush and reminisce. Saving you a bigger piece of your
favourite cheese pizza is much relishing.
His concern
for you evidently drips of his face when he waits to wave goodbye until you get
disappeared to a tiny self in the crowd. Waiting restlessly to get your
attention over the road until you finish speaking to a lost friend you met incidentally
reflects your importance in his life.
Nothing can
be more romantic than him fiddling with your hair strand that flew on to his face
during a light moment at the beach. Noticing your smudge kohl during a dinner
date and wiping it out for you makes you feel more elegant while your heart
swells with pride to have him by your side. Magic of the adorable moments of calling
you out with weird names that you haven’t even heard of to sound cute will
never be a passé. Tirelessly nodding in
agreement for the 10th yellow kurta you tried on at a fashion outlet
for the sake of your happiness and your love for the colour can only be
understood by him. The quite conversations in a candlelit room, caressing your
palms inattentively sitting at the beach are the velvety moments that nurture
your relationship stronger at each step of life.
Planning a
surprise for you in his own special ways to see the astonishment on your face remains
fresh in your treasure-trove of memories forever.
His waking
up in middle of the sleep and calling you up after he had a bad dream shows how
much your presence mean to him. A compliment pierced for you to smile in
middle of a serious conversation though how minute but changes your mood
promptly.
Holding you
as close as possible to protect you in a crowded train; its love, compassion,
care and passion in these small moments that counts.
The social
network can only do so much. It may display the glossiest image of him holding
you in his arms along with a flashy love quote from the bestselling novel as a
caption but the fear in his eyes and the emotional preparation he had to go through before
the proposal was well worn out through the finest editing app. You really need
to know the priceless emotion behind his striking smile and the value of the
tear that dripped off silently from the corner of his eye while he was
consoling to have hurt you. Ongoing small gestures can mean so much more than
one grand display of love. These smaller gestures that went unnoticed while you
were expecting the bigger surprises from life are worth a million dollar;
cherish them for life because once the time flies these small gestures can never be regained.
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